Frolicking in the sun whole day without a care in the world. Jumping over walls, sharing ice creams and secrets with the same gusto. Getting home dirty in the evening, and then looking forward to a quick shower, hot food and a goodnight story from mom.
For a lot of us these are the enduring memories of our childhood. The carefree spirit, the feeling of abundance even though we had little. Even a stick could become the best toy depending on where our imagination took us that day.
Sadly, today we seem to be missing out on that childhood. Now, it is all about pushing the children into different activities,and then from one tuition to another. It has become a race to the top. I know that the competition today is immense but who started it. It was us and our desire to ensure that our child is number one and does not lack for anything.
But why have we forgotten that the best lessons that we learnt were in the games we played in childhood. We learnt cooperation and team work by playing in the park with other children; we learnt savings from only getting fixed pocket money ; we learnt the importance of safety by falling and scrapping our knees; we learnt music and dance by singing with our cousins at the top of our voice – all this as you can see was learnt while we were having fun.
We need to remember that we luckily have memories of this fun childhood to fall back on when the going gets tough, but what would our children have?
Let them run free, let them follow their own path , their own journey. Be there to support but not lead.
So true ! Very well articulated !
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This is so true. Another thing I see happening is kids not wanting to be kids. It is sad that they want to grow up faster then they need to.
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I agree, and I think computers and smartphones are part of the problem too – even though I couldn’t live without mine. Good post.
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Gadgets are the future….however, making sure there is unstructured outdoor playing time is also important
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You make a very good point. Children are missing free time, exploration time, and down time for thinking and contemplating. Many are also missing out on sensory time, such as colouring, manipulating puzzles, or building and creating without instructions or an agenda.
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Yes…I especially feel sad that they have no unstructured play time left
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My wife and I made a conscious decision not to schedule out every moment of the kids time. It worked for the most part, we had to guide them away from the video games as a primary use of their downtime but other than that I think it went pretty well.
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I sincerely think that our time was the best time. Kids these days are too busy in their ipads to look at the real world. Childhood was supposed to be a wonderful memory, but now it is caged in the virtual world.
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I completely agree with your point….sadly that is the future
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I completely agree
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I totally agree with you! I often think about how my childer’s childhood will differ from mine especially in the age and times when everyone hooked to their phones … It leads me to think how will I ever balance that aspect. Cutting off screen time, perhaps. I have no clue! I guess I will be doing my parenting planning when I will be a parent …
One thing I will certain do is, like you said: “Let them run free, let them follow their own path, their own journey. Be there to support but not lead.”
Thanks for the wonderful post!
Best Wishes!
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It is best to create a balance….screen time has to be countered with free play time and especially unstructured play time
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You have raised a very important point! i really do wonder what parents are upto these days! Some of these kids have schedules even more busy than the busiest of adults I know of! There must be a way to bring balance back to childhood?!
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Very well written.And a valid point for concern. Children today are not ‘children’. They are so serious, goal-oriented, competitive!! They are missing out on the joys of childhood….. Thank you for bringing this up.
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